You want to be loved? You want to be praised? You want to be cherished? You want to be cared for?
WHAT is it that you want?
And WHAT is it that you want to be seen as? What are you “laying” on the table?
Relationships come and go. They are alive. They do their “work” and then thei’re gone. Maybe until the next request. Do you know what they did? What they have been there for?
Every request that you have is met. If you want a cake, you’ll get one. If you want a hug, you’ll have one. If you want a fight, there it is.
Yet … when you do NOT know what you are asking for – what you are laying on the table – it’s very difficult to say thank you and to carry on.
Know yourself better. Anytime you are “entering” in a relationship – at least that you are “aware” of – considered your positioning, and what you are looking for in that relationship. Be it romantic, parental, friendship and work. It will make you focused, clear and not mixing them all.
(if you want to be loved, you’ll focus on love, you’ll be willing to give and receive love – everything else fades away. if you want money, you’ll be focused on giving and getting more physical, material world, be more pragmatic, avoid naturally the clutter. if you want a “yes” man/ woman, don’t mix it with a “friend”, find the specific person for doing it. isn’t it easier? you can be happy, accept who you are).
