Unless you come from an environment where everything is possible as a norm, you come from scarce. Scarce is a place where everything is possible, yet not enough, or where not everything is possible. Scarcity was where it was plenty of it, scarce, one way or another.
Scarcity is not a scarce, as there is plenty of it. It matters the scarcity, and not the object of the scarcity. As it seems you have plenty things that you don’t want seemingly, and few things you’d want, you would believe that scarce and plenty exist as opponents. What you perceive as scarce or plenty depends actually on the vibratory frequency of the underlying object, situation, even person, that you are perceiving as scarce or plenty.
Everything is energy and pulsates. Like attracts like, so if you pulsate at a certain rate, this pulse attracts everything that resonate with it. If your pulse is love, you’ll attract everything and everybody who vibrates love. If you are worry, you’ll attract everything and everybody who’s worry or keep worry dear.
That’s why your “lack” (of something) seems to be linked with plenty of “unpleasant” things or persons. You don’t see “the plenty” of the pulse they have in common, and being the pulse you are generating.
When you change your pulse, plenty starts looking like plenty and life is full of pleasant “surprises”.
To heal this situation and change things, heal yourself of “plenty”. Maybe you have been hurt by just having too many “good” or “bad” things, persons, situations in your life at a certain moment, circumstances not being stable, so you became afraid of having plenty, linking it to stressful situations. Look instead to all the persons, things and situations in your life then, and notice it was not the plenty that hurt you, there was mainly the persons involving you. Make peace with those persons, let the “fog”, the frustration, the quilt, the shame, the weakness go, allowing therefore your pulse (vibration) rise so you can attract and create higher frequency experiences.
From this moment on, forget the plenty, focus only on the things, persons, circumstances you want to experience.
