Many times we use the phrase “I don’t love you”- “I can’t love myself”. The truth is “I don’t like you”, and “I don’t like myself”. The truth is I will always love you, and I will always love myself.
When “I don’t like you” or “I like you best” are said, we touch freedom. It’s our right to like (or not). We feel it as truth. We respectfully and gently receive each others message, and decide if, and what to change. We can understand it’s your right to like, dislike and change.
Whenever we say “I love you” and not say “but I do not like you”, we all feel betrayed. We know you love us! What’s more interesting (and important) is whether, or not, you like us.
We all love each others – it is “impossible” not to, we are part of the same energy, love. We are here to seek the truth, to refine it to the littlest levels, take it as truth and move on to the next level. So, before saying “I Love You” to your most loved ones – including your children – pause for a moment and think “yes, but do I like you?” The greatest gift you can do them AND yourself is to be honest. Be honest about it, and you may have the chance to change.
