Just like ego, your personality, control may be educated. You are always in control – YOU are The Creator and the Universe grants your creations. You always have control. The easiest way to “lose” it is to give it to somebody else and then trying to control it.
The Universe is at your command. Everything you wish, you’ll have. What is it than that you do not understand?
You have control over the Universe – your internal attitudes. Choosing how to react is rather late, it is not the way to choose. Once you have created an un-wished for internally, it is rather late (difficult and inappropriate) to choose your attitude when it happens in physical form.
You have the control – so choose your attitudes, the physical results, BEFORE they happen, when they are still energy looking for form. Use your elevated consciousness – consciously choose your attitudes, your thoughts, your emotions, the states (and places) of “where” you want to be and understand that your decision, your choice has stopped there. You Do NOT Need to “take care” of the rest, it is already there, in the only form it could be, mirroring your choices.
You have control – and this is how it is meant to be.
Why is yet so difficult?
More difficult than “loosing control”, giving it away, abandoning, giving it to the Universe, let’s say, is actually being in control, taking ownership, taking accountability and responsibility. You are responsible for your choices, it is NOT easier to give away and then blame others for that. On the long run, it is very hurtful to you, as a human entity.
One of the experiences the energy seeks in human being experience is being the creator. It is not the impossibility that they believe is there, it is the tremendous responsibility you have as creator that you are not able to take ownership for.
“They need to change”. And then “it was not my choice”. It is always YOUR CHOICE and it is always YOU to change. Whenever you “are” in control of circumstances, changing peoples’ lives, relationships, marriages, you are giving away your control. You are afraid of actually being in control and manifest. Take ownership instead. Choose “I am in control” and move the “world” internally, choose your attitudes consciously and you’ll never “have” to “act” externally.
