“My son is fifteen. I want spend some time talking with him. He never seems to care. He’s never available”
Where were you when your son was born? When he was little? He needed your help then. He couldn’t find it. He did not get it. So he started life on his own. Now, you are in the middle. You get in his way. He doesn’t know you. He can’t be “there”, you are standing in his way. There is nothing to be done at that point. Pray for him along that way. Be there, present. on the side of the way. He will get used to your presence eventually. He will turn your way, and’ll say “Hi, there”. And at the point your story begins. It will be most fulfilling and bliss.
