Relationships are …. or are not. They can’t be forced, they can’t be changed, they can’t be stopped. They are, or they are not. They are not meant to be worked on. Their purpose is love. They want to be loved, lived and enjoyed. You created them. (we know you love everybody. focus on the relationship, … [Read more…]
Shortly, the story says that the frog made it. Even if – and maybe especially due to the fact that she was deaf. What happened? There was a frog wanting to climb a tall tree. Everyone (probably the other folks – sorry, I meant frogs) said “It’s not possible”. They said it first to themselves, and then … [Read more…]
Blaise Pascal wrote: “Le plaisir des grands est de pouvoir faire des heureux.” The pleasure of the grand persons is to make others happy. One translation. Another is “The pleasure of the great people is to bring happiness, make themselves happy”. My favorite, though, is “the passion and enjoyment of great people is making happiness“. … [Read more…]
When meditating for forgiveness, you are surprised that you (feel to) forgive yourself for being good, being handsome, being generous, being beautiful. Taking care of you, hoping for others, praying for them. Loving you. Cheering you. Helping you. It may feel very surprising indeed. And yet, if you’ve been told, and let to believe, that … [Read more…]
“I am hungry”. “ohhh, don’t worry, go grab something. we’ll just wait for you, or maybe we can all go”. “I am tired”. – Nobody says nothing. And yet … sleeping is important as feeding. And yet … nobody says “Sure, go grab some sleep. we’ll be waiting”. Food is social, sleep is solitary. You … [Read more…]
Duty may give you some pride and no choice. Right may give you the idea of entitlement, invincibility, superiority – and the frustration attached. Privilege. Privilege is your choice bringing satisfaction, meaning and fulfillment while you are gracefully receiving your contribution to yourself and many. Privilege is power while remaining humble and open, noticing, acknowledging and taking … [Read more…]
“We [humans] want to be free to and not free from”. Viktor Frankl We want to be allowed to (be, do, see, feel, taste, say whatever we want, we “feel” like), to have permission to (be, do, see, feel taste more), And whatever might be we have been wishing for. Including permission to be, to dream, to expand our reality, … [Read more…]
Vulnerability is a goddess. She just let you change. It is the gate to your change your being something else, you becoming yourself. What can be more scarier? Increased Vulnerability. Accepted Vulnerability. Shown Vulnerability. Never Minded Vulnerability. Let the gate open, let the goddess reveal. The miracles and wonders from within will never stop amazing you. Let … [Read more…]
To be more, be friends with you are. To have more, be friends with what you have. To be, and have not, simply unfriend.
Protection stands up for fear. It is “supposed” to protect you from “others”. It is merely a construction that is seeking your attention. From love, happiness, meaning, transformation. Protecting your client from their fears – not letting them feel their fears Protecting your child from “dangers” – not letting them having the experience you believe … [Read more…]
